Cynthia Ezegwu
Sexual harassment remains one of the most underreported crimes in Nigeria, silencing countless victims in workplaces, schools, markets, and even places of worship. Experts say the silence is often fueled by stigma, fear of retaliation, or a lack of faith in the justice system.
But a growing movement is urging victims to speak out, seek support, and reclaim their dignity. At the heart of this call is a clear message: sexual harassment is never the victim’s fault, and healing is possible.
Recognize the Abuse
Survivors are encouraged to first acknowledge the harassment for what it is—an abuse of power. It can take many forms: unwanted touching, persistent sexual advances, crude remarks, or intimidating gestures.
Accepting that it was wrong is the first step toward healing and justice.
Speak Up Safely
“Silence protects the abuser, not the victim,” says Mrs Precious Eberechukwu, a gender-rights advocate.
Victims are advised to share their experience with a trusted friend, family member, or counselor.
In workplaces and schools, harassment should be reported to HR desks, complaint officers, or student affairs units. Confidential or anonymous reporting platforms like the Encare Response App are also available in Lagos State.
Document Everything
Keeping detailed records—times, dates, messages, and witness accounts—strengthens any potential legal case.
According to the Women’s Rights and Health Project (WRAHP), documentation often makes the difference between justice being served or denied.
Know the Law
Nigeria’s Violence Against Persons Prohibition (VAPP) Act explicitly criminalizes sexual harassment. Victims can also seek redress through workplace regulations and labor laws. Human rights lawyers stress that survivors should not hesitate to contact the police or civil society organizations such as Mirabel Centre and WARDC for support.
Prioritize Healing
Beyond justice, emotional recovery is vital. Experts recommend counseling, therapy, or peer-support groups for survivors experiencing anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem. Wellness practices like journaling, meditation, and exercise can also aid healing.
Build a Support System
Having allies—friends, family, or advocacy networks—provides survivors with strength during difficult moments.
“Support restores courage,” says Hauwa Mustapha, a psychosocial support worker in Lagos.
Reclaim Your Power
Each step—reporting, seeking help, or healing—is an act of resistance against harassment.
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Survivors are reminded that their worth is not defined by abuse but by their resilience.
The Bigger Picture
Sexual harassment is not only a personal trauma; it is a societal failure. Nigeria still struggles with weak enforcement of anti-harassment laws, cultural stigmas that shame victims, and institutions that lack effective complaint mechanisms.
But activists say every survivor who speaks up contributes to dismantling the culture of silence.
“When victims reclaim their voice, they inspire others to break free too,” says Dr. Ajayi.
Key Resources for Survivors in Nigeria
Encare Response App – anonymous reporting platform for SGBV cases.
Mirabel Centre (Lagos) – first sexual assault referral centre in Nigeria.
WRAHP – legal, psychosocial, and advocacy support.
WARDC – Women’s Advocacy Research and Documentation Centre.
Bottom line: Healing after harassment is possible. By speaking out and seeking justice, survivors not only reclaim their lives but also help break the cycle for future generations.