Hollywood actress and singer Keke Palmer has sparked conversation about modern relationships after revealing that she prefers not to live with a romantic partner, even in marriage.
The 32-year-old actress shared her views during an appearance on Today with Jenna Bush Hager and Sheinelle Jones on Monday, February 2, while promoting her Peacock television series The Burbs. Speaking candidly, Palmer said maintaining personal space and independence is non-negotiable for her in any long-term relationship.
The discussion followed a segment on a growing dating trend in which people address major life topics—such as marriage, politics, and children—on their first date. Palmer welcomed the idea, noting that early honesty helps avoid wasted time and emotional confusion.
“I think that’s actually good. Just get it out of the way,” she said. “Sometimes you talk to somebody and never discuss anything real.”
During a lighthearted role-play of a first date, host Jenna Bush Hager asked Palmer if she wanted children. While Palmer is already a mother to her two-year-old son, Leodis, she used the moment to clearly state her stance on cohabitation.
“I could be open, but one thing you need to know is I never want to live together. I like my alone time,” Palmer said, stressing that her comment reflected her genuine personal values.
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Referencing actress Whoopi Goldberg, Palmer added, “She once said, ‘I don’t want nobody in my house,’ and I feel that. Married, even.”
The Nope star suggested alternative arrangements, including living in separate homes, nearby houses, or even different spaces on the same property. At best, she said, she would consider separate rooms, joking that she also prefers not to share a bathroom.
According to Palmer, maintaining separate living spaces can help keep relationships fresh and exciting. “I want to go over to my man’s house,” she said with a laugh. “Over there, hi husband!”
Her remarks have since resonated widely online, with many praising her honesty and openness about redefining traditional relationship expectations.