Nigerian actress Toyin Abraham has addressed criticism surrounding her habit of kneeling to greet others at public events, making it clear she has no intention of abandoning the gesture.
The controversy began after a social media user, Lady Victoria, advised the actress on X to stop what she described as “unnecessary kneeling,” arguing that the practice could attract disrespect and appear performative.
Responding on Saturday, Abraham firmly defended her actions, stressing that she would continue to show respect in the manner she deems appropriate.
“I won’t stop kneeling to people who value and deserve it, my darling. I will continue to go on my both knees to greet people who value and deserve it no matter the status,” Abraham wrote.
The debate was triggered by a viral video from the 70th birthday celebration of former Ogun State Governor, Gbenga Daniel.
In the clip, Abraham was seen kneeling to greet prominent figures, including socialite Shade Okoya and her husband, businessman Rasaq Okoya, among other dignitaries.
Lady Victoria, who identified herself as a supporter of the actress, questioned the necessity of the gesture, noting that some of the individuals Abraham greeted were not significantly older than her.
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She suggested that the practice made the actress appear to diminish her own status.
The exchange quickly sparked mixed reactions online. Supporters argued that Abraham’s actions reflect the Yoruba cultural value of “Omoluabi,” which emphasises humility and respect, especially toward elders and accomplished individuals.
They also pointed to the stature of those she greeted, including the Okoyas, as justification.
Critics, however, disagreed, saying the repeated kneeling was excessive for someone of Abraham’s position.
While some accepted bending slightly as a sign of respect, they argued that kneeling fully—particularly to the point of needing assistance to stand—was unnecessary given her age and status.
In her comments, Lady Victoria also referenced Abraham’s support for President Bola Tinubu during the 2023 elections, a stance that had previously drawn backlash.
“We Nigerians have forgiven you for supporting City Boy in 2023. It’s time you forgive yourself too and carry yourself with pride and grace.”
Abraham did not respond to that aspect of the criticism, focusing instead on reaffirming her commitment to expressing respect through her actions.